so! after JST’s birthday party, we went to the wharf for the vessel’s departure.  Kuya Ben’s unico hijo - Kit, was also there as he wanted to be with his dad.  As they said, her (MV Pacific Freesia) ETD was 12 midnight, but as we arrived there, it was moved to 0200..urrgghh (i knew it!) Why they can’t have the exact time?  Actually, buti na lang ‘to ngayon, their previous estimates were like four, eight, even up to 12 hours late!  Gosh!

Ok, so it departed around 0228 hours, letlet said that she’s not going home ‘coz she doesn’t want to bother the people at home to their sweetest sleeps.  And besides, 90% she can’t get in the house ‘coz they are double locking the doors.  Then, even still at the wharf, she’s like..i don’t know if making parinig to all of us - (”sa office na ako matutulog kse hindi na ako mabubuksan sa bahay”).  Then, at the car, she told me accompany her, i don’t mind it.. then when we arrived at the office, she was already there lying at the sofa, then let kuya ben told me to sleep there too! my gosh! i don’t wanna sleep at the office, considering all the rumors and everything i heard about the past incidents!  Then, i was convincing her to sleep instead at my place, pero ayaw naman nya! my gosh! alam mo yun.. her all pakipot style… Then she moved staight ahead at the back, she told kuya ben pala na dun na lang matutulog sa labas at least dun kasama nya ung guard.  O d ba, ok din sya’ng magpakonsensya!  So, i finally decided to sleep at the office. (you know if i didn’t do that my conscience will really kill me) too bad kuya ben cannot stay with us as he told us because of Kit (who’already sleeping at the car), and i perfectly understand his situation.

Then, it was 7 am, letlet awake before me… she told me to get ready at baka maabutan na kami ni donna.  So i brushed my teeth, comb my hair.. don’t wanna wash my face anymore, ‘coz i feel so tired and bloody sleepy, and my tonsilitis is killing me.  I don’t feel well already.  So, i told her to get a cab instead of riding PUJ, she said to take jeep na lang ‘coz she doesn’t have enough funds, i remained silent ‘coz i am starting to feel head ache. Then, nung nasa labas na kmi, i said again - ‘let mag-taxi tayo huh.  Sabi nya, hindi magji-jeep lang tyo kse tingnan mo ‘tong pera ko oh, ito lang talaga - -> those where the exact words.  Then i said, sige lang.. then pumara na ako ng taxi, sabi nya “ikaw na lang wala akong pera”, then i said, ako na nga ang magbabayad, she insisted again, ikaw na lang para diretso ka na sa Damosa..  Gggrrrr, alam mo yung pakipot style nya, na gusto nya pilit-pilitin pa sya, haynku, sumakay na ako ng taxi, i already insisted her thrice already to ride with me. Masyado na nya akong na-hassle so wala na akong masasabi pa kundi “BAHALA KA SA BUHAY MO!”

MORAL OF MY STORY: (Wag nang sumama pa sa mga taong kabaklaan ang pag-uugali tulad ni Leticia!)

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Finally, natapos ko na ang “Couple in Trouble” - it’s a Korean Drama na sobrang nakakatawa. It’s already on my top favorite lists of Korean dramas…. I’m so happy ang kilig!!! I felt so contented with the ending. Unlike the usual korean dramas.. you know… they’re so much fond of tragic ending kse eh or kung funny story naman - hanging ang ending. But this one, really great! nakaka-inluv!!Oh by the way, if in case you’re not that aware of Korean star… the male actor here Oh Ji Ho is such a hottie!

check few of his sites:

• http://wiki.d-addicts.com/Oh_Ji_Ho
• http://www.ampedasia.com/hunks/Oh-Ji-Ho/
• http://www.mostbeautifulman.com/actors/ohjiho/bio.shtml

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1. Fall in love all over again. Make a conscious decision to be in love. The more you act as if you are in love, the more you will feel like you are.

2. Remember the good times. Treat your partner like you did at the beginning of your relationship. Make a list of all the things you used to enjoy doing together and add any new fantasies to the list. Plan for them and make them happen.

3. Help your partner feel more loved and secure in your love so that he or she can open up to you and express feelings and ideas without fear of being attacked or judged. Compliment, praise, give a hug. Small gestures make the grandest statements.

4. Don’t make unilateral decisions. You’re a team in many ways, so act like one. Check in and make decisions together about things large and small. Be willing to compromise.

5. Be present. Train your mind to stay in the moment — not at work, thinking about the new color you want to paint your kitchen, or how it’s time to take the dog to the vet.

6. Pay attention to your physical appearance. Take the time to stay in shape and look good for each other. It does matter.

7. Boost your compatibility. Couples in crisis focus on all the ways they are different, whereas those who are in love zero in on their similarities and think their differences are cute. Build compatibility by taking turns planning activities to do together. If you don’t like your partner’s choice, don’t complain; it’s your turn next.

8. Do not place blame. Replace blame and criticism with solutions and tenderness. Problem-solve together — sit close, hold hands, touch each other’s face or hair. Be playful. When was the last time you laughed together? Rent a comedy movie to tickle your funny bone.

9. Plan for sex. Spontaneity is great but smart couples know that good sex doesn’t just happen. Like everything else, it takes time and planning.

10. Fact-find — don’t mind-read. You may think you know but you can’t assume. You may believe he should know, but that’s not fair, either. Always clear up misinterpretations and misunderstandings to make sure they don’t throw you both off course.

11. Fight fair — and by appointment only. Schedule a limited time to discuss a problem and confine your comments to that issue only. It’s easier to relax and feel free to enjoy each other when you know you won’t be ambushed by a litany of complaints and criticisms.

12. Prepare for checkouts. Even in the closest marriage, everyone needs time alone. Don’t take it personally and don’t make each other feel guilty if you need to spiritually and emotionally regroup. Just be sure to tell each other when you are checking out (max, one day) — and when you’re checking back in.

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Came across to this post..so i don’t have a choice but to re-post it (don’t wanna have bad luck guys!)

You have now opened the drinking fountain. Post this bulletin or you will have bad luck for 365 days. The only way you can stop it is if you repost this and make the subject the drink that describes your love life.

GATORAD E: down to mess around

BLOODY MARY: broken heart

BEER: taken

COKE: confused

PINK LEMONADE: like someone

APPLE JUICE:  I’m a dinosaur! rawr!

ORANGE JUICE: you’ve simply given up

SPRITE: you are finally with someone you like, and are really happy

DIET COKE: like someone but don’t know if he/she like you back

VODKA: like someone who likes you back but are not going out yet.

ROOT BEER: taken but not very steady

GRAPE SODA: taken but about to break up

SMIRNOFF: TAKEN and love that person

MR. PIBB: single and happy

MOUNTAIN DEW: kinda confused on who you like

CORONA: single & just having fun right now..but if someone comes along then we’ll see what happens

ICED TEA: you love someone, but you dont know if she/he loves you as much as you love her/him

WATER : single and can’t get anyone

TEQUIL LA: want someone you can’t have

DR.PEPPE R: you just like dr.pepper so much. and you want some right now..yeah

GRE EN TEA: you like someone who likes you back

MARGARITA: you’re in love with your bestfriend

MANGO SHAKE: Single but starting to like somebody who liked/likes you

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This is one of my saddest birthday if mine…

(i think so.. )

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Most teens aren’t ready for anything close to a mature friendship. According to current research, the brain continues to develop into a person’s 20s. Mothers often want to befriend their daughters; (fathers, their sons). But this is not in anyone’s best interest. Teenagers need to form identities distinct from their parents. That means: lots of privacy, even some secrets. Its usually easier for a teenage girl to befriend the friend of her mother, and its usually best for the mother to leave it at that.

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 Found this article in Yahoo!

US astronomers have discovered the biggest black hole orbiting a star 1.8 million light-years from Earth in the constellation Cassiopeia, with a record-setting mass of 24 to 33 times that of our Sun, NASA said Tuesday.

The massive newcomer beats the previous stellar-mass black hole discovered October 17 in the M33 galaxy that has 16 times the mass of our Sun, the
US space agency said.

Like the much larger, supermassive black holes found at galaxy centers, stellar-mass black holes have such powerful gravity fields that not even light can escape them. Astronomers estimate their mass by measuring their gas emissions and the gravitational effect on the stars they orbit.

“We weren’t expecting to find a stellar-mass black hole this massive,” says Andrea Prestwich of the

Harvard-Smithsonian
Center for Astrophysics in
Cambridge, Massachusetts.

Lead author of the discovery paper in the November 1 Astrophysical Journal Letters, Prestwich and his team found the new stellar-mass black hole using NASA’s Chandra X-ray Observatory.

“We now know that black holes that form from dying stars can be much larger than we had realized,” he added.

Prestwich’s team was able to measure the black hole’s mass because it has an orbiting companion: a hot, highly evolved star. The star is ejecting gas in the form of a wind.

Some of this material spirals toward the black hole, heats up, and gives off powerful X-rays before crossing the point of no return.

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